Meaning of Lost

Losing is part of human nature that can make a difference in our lives. Meaning can be lost or forged grief and suffering for the quality of fortitude and readiness self. Sense of loss is part of a sense of belonging because of attachment to something or someone. Shows a sense of loss that is not fully intact, feels less without the presence of something or someone. In everyday life, we often come into contact with a sense of loss. Will lose the object, spirit, feelings, self-esteem and mood, loss figure of a person, loss of opportunity or chance of even the fear of losing.
Loss ever experienced by anyone, regardless of differences of things missing, a reaction to the loss, how to respond, cope with and interpret the loss, as well as impacts. Losing a valuable object could mean catastrophe for some, and lose one's figure could mean pain for us. On top of that, losing something or someone can lead to loss of hope and awareness of the conscience (conscience), so that the meaning of loss can alter one's perception of life. Not a few people that make up the meaning and perception of pain and loss as dissolved in it, to lose confidence and meaningfulness of life. Why we feel lost?
Loss grows in the minds and our feelings because of the following meanings, which we often realize after the loss occurred.First, we feel lost because of something or someone who lost a very valuable and meaningful to us. We often find it too late to realize or even realize how precious something and how much it meant someone for us after all was lost, so we feel lost and feel the sense of loss as a deficiency, void, or emptiness without the presence of the lost.Secondly, we feel lost because we realize that we need the missing. The intensity of togetherness and closeness makes us feel familiar and ordinary. However, when the familiar and ordinary that no, we feel something is missing and missing from the habit and familiarity. This shows that we need his presence, existence, role, function and kebermanfaatannya for us, so that the sense of need that could develop into a lost hope.Third, we feel lost because we feel love and affection that was missing. However valuable things for others, and however it meant a person for others, nothing will make us feel lost when we do not love him and loved him or at least empathy that can make us feel lost. Loss of friends, friends, family or loved ones are lost because of our love to them. The depth of flavor can be confirmed within the meaning of loss and our hearts, so that losing it could impact the unusual and extraordinary for a person's life and heart.
Usually the initial reaction as indicated by the sad loss, crying, upset, angry or blame themselves for being a waste of the lost. This reaction can continue to make us late, went down and sank in the sense of losing it. When this is our reaction, then we may not lose the significance of and belief in self, life and Owner of Life. There are also people who can handle it by showing a reasonable reaction because he believed in the power of God. Meaning of loss for people like this is a test once a change in life, not grief alone. People like this is categorized as a learner of life, have the ability to see and understand the wisdom behind the problem, see the ease in trouble and makes a failure as a springboard to move forward.
This paper is a personal reflection. Which means it loses weight. It takes time, willingness and readiness of heart to be able to confront and overcome them. We do have to be ready to lose because we only perform the role of life, does not have anything even for ourselves.

(Author : Nia Hidayati)