Both puberty

The term "puberty" is derived from the word "pubes" which means hair that grows around the genitals. Condition is experienced by teenage years, both men and women. Second puberty is a condition where there is a similarity of behavior such as that experienced by children who enter puberty, such as more attention to appearance, more attention to the opposite sex, and so on.
Second puberty experienced by men and women who entered the age of 40 years and over.  

Symptoms that occur in men as he entered a second puberty are:
    * Reluctant to appear older. They began to notice the appearance and beauty of her body. Dyed her hair style young, fashionable slang, modifying his car to be flat, and so on.
    * They are also happy to re-start an adventure. Starting from the long-distance bike ride, up and out of the discotheque.
    * Productivity of living increases. Many found that they were more adept at negotiating, the more advanced business, as well as more spectacular career. 
In women, symptoms are:
    * Disturbed or cessation of the menstrual process (menopause). This happens because gonadotrop no longer produced by the gland hypophysc. Effects that occur are dizziness, lethargy, and lack of passion. As a result, emotional stability is often disrupted.
    * Shrink fat deposits so the skin starts to wrinkle, even breasts start changing shape. Graying hair. This situation will affect the mental state. Moreover, if the husband saw this as a setback.
Each person will experience this second phase of puberty. Because it needs adequate preparation for entering the mature phase of this crisis. This is where the commitment of marriage re-tested. Communication and understanding are very important role for the couple who started this second hit puberty. Different conditions between husbands and wives often times lead to conflict between them. Husband getting excited in many ways, while the wife increasingly lethargic and less passionate. If there is good communication between couples who entered this period, then the issue of this second crisis would be resolved.
 
Some things you can do to get through puberty a second well is:
    * Banc both undisturbed by the presence of children
    * Providing such a surprise candle light dinner, buy goods that are desirable partner, and so on
    * Reopen memories photo album together
    * Watching movies alone
    * And so on

It is expected that couples entering a second puberty can pass well and happily into old age.

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